When you lose the muscle of 100% focus, everything else falls apart.
Going with the flow has becoem really easy. If you have mastered 3 things, you’re golden.
Know that you are awesome, even if your performance in the recent history has been less then excellent. If you are generally awesome at enjoying and exploring life, be aware of it and confident due to it.
Listen to the moment. Know what you want to happen, and dance with what is currently happening to see if you can gently and enjoyably guide events closer to your idea. Enjoy every step.
Realize that there are almost always no negative consequences to any action.
Listening is at least equally enjoyable as talking. Usually more enjoyable and more beneficial